Have you ever had sex with a webcam live girl? If you haven’t tried it yet but want to, this article will be your new best friend.
We talked with an anonymous yet highly popular webcam model, and she gave us a ton of great advice for beginners. We will call her Rose.
Keep reading to learn how you can make your first live webcam sex call an amazing one, according to an expert.
Don’t forget to set the mood
There’s nothing worse than having awkward sex. And if you don’t set the mood before a live webcam chat, then virtual sex can be awkward as well.
Rose says a common mistake men make when camming for the first time is a lack of preparation. Things like video quality, bad angles, and poor audio can be.
Here are a few tips that Rose says can help you make sure your next session with a webcam live girl is everything you hoped it would be:
Choose the right location: You want to find a place that’s quiet and free from distractions. Set up your computer where you have a good view of yourself. This way, you can see your look and make any necessary adjustments.
Get comfortable: This might mean changing into something more comfortable, adding some candles, and setting the mood with music. Whatever makes you feel more relaxed and sexy, do it!
Ensure the lighting is good: You don’t want anything too bright or too dark. Ideally, you should have a lamp on either side of your computer so that your face is well-lit. Open up the blinds or curtains to let in some natural light.
Adjust your camera: No one wants to see up your nose or have their face obscured by shadows. Please take a minute to adjust your camera, so it’s at a flattering angle, and focus on ensuring that your face is well-lit.
Test the audio: This one is important! You want your webcam live girl to hear your requests, and even more importantly, you want to hear the sounds of pleasure from your cam girl.
Choose the right platform: There are many different platforms for having sex with a webcam live girl, so it’s important to choose one that’s right for you.
Use sexy props
Webcam live girl Rose says that props can change the dynamic of a sex call for the better. If you want to get creative, you can use props to create different scenarios or fantasies for you and your partner to role-play. For example, if you’re into BDSM, you might use handcuffs, blindfolds, whips, etc.
Play some games
One genius way to make your session with a webcam live girl much more exciting is to play some games. The first game is to use sex toys that can be controlled remotely. Play something like truth or dare, i-spy, or never have I ever, and when your cam girl gets the answer wrong, punish her with pleasurable vibrations.
Learning body language cues
When it comes to webcam sex, learning to read your cam girl’s body language cues is essential for having the best experience possible. Luckily, reading body language is relatively easy once you know what to look for. Here are some key cues to keep an eye out for:
Eye contact: Maintaining eye contact with your partner is crucial for strengthening the connection. There’s nothing sexier than locking eyes with a webcam live girl while she orgasms.
Moaning/breathing heavily: Again, these are both signs that your partner is getting aroused. You’re doing something right if you hear them moaning or notice them breathing heavier!
Creating dynamics of structure and power
When it comes to webcam sex, creating structure and power dynamics can make all the difference. Here are a few tips to get you started:
Talk dirty to each other. Get each other worked up with dirty talk before you start getting physical. Use your words to paint a picture of what you want to do to each other, and let your imagination run wild.
Take control. If you’re typically the submissive one in your relationship, take charge during webcam sex and tell your partner what you want them to do. This can be a hot power play dynamic that will intensify your experience.
If there is something that leaves you feeling uneasy or not completely satisfied, it’s a great idea to find a way to communicate that in a respectful manner if possible. This could be by voicing it directly with the cam girl before/after the session or simply sending her kind feedback expressing your overall thoughts afterwards. This can help to ensure that all parties involved are on the same page when it comes to expectations.
Learning from the experience
Now that you’ve had some mind-blowing sex with a cam girl, it’s important to reflect on the experience and learn from it. Whether this was your first time ever having a session with a cam girl or you’ve been doing it for years, there is always something to be learned.
One of the most important things you can do is take the time to think about what did and didn’t work for you in the session. Think about all of the things that made it enjoyable, or if anything felt awkward or uncomfortable for either party. Taking this feedback into consideration will help you have an even better experience in your next session.
You should also take note of the techniques she used that worked well for her while speaking with you. This includes everything from her body language and facial expressions to how she phrased her compliments and flirting remarks towards you. All of these things can help spice up future sessions and make them even more enjoyable than before.
Finally, take some time to think about whether or not there are any additional elements that could have made it a better experience for both of you going forward. Things like costumes, props, toys and role-play can all add an extra layer to your sessions together if desired! Remember that every person is different and what works well for one won’t necessarily be as successful with another – communication is key to figuring out what works best between you two!