At least, if you want to get the most out of the experience, ensure the same person is on the other end of the line.
There’s a degree of discretion and anonymity with live chat video sex that doesn’t come with conventional sex. Something that can make you feel more confident, empowered, and able to explore the very depths of your sexuality.
Is preparing for live sex calls the same as preparing for sex in the real world? Not exactly, but some of the same basic rules very much apply.
But when you place a screen between yourself and whoever you’re ‘interacting’ with, it can be tempting to cut corners. Particularly where male sexual hygiene is concerned, some of the normal good habits you’d practice may go out of the window.
The simple fact is that the key to good virtual sex in all its forms lies in putting in the appropriate prep work. As far as male sexual hygiene goes, the following really should be considered essential before a live sex call:
Wash, Dry, and Smell Great
First, why does it matter if you’re clean and fresh-smelling and not even in the same area code (or country) as the person you’re hooking up with? The answer is simple – good hygiene builds confidence. It is fundamentally impossible to feel your best and take confidence in your appearance if you are not happy with your hygiene level.
Think about it – when was the last time you stank to high heaven and felt sexy? Or even remotely confident? It just doesn’t happen. Be it subconscious or otherwise, you need to uphold the highest hygiene levels to feel good and to get the most out of video sex.
Change Your Underwear
Live sex calls aren’t (or shouldn’t be) exclusively about your entertainment. You should do everything you can to get your date fired up and ensure they enjoy the experience as much as you do. Or, for that matter, consider investing in new underwear for your next planned virtual hookup.
Suffice it to say that nothing is a bigger turnoff for women (remotely or in person) than stained, discolored, or generally rank-looking underwear. You’d expect her to wear her best undies for you, so it’s your job to do the same for her.
Get Your Grooming in Order
Some people like pubic hair more than others, and there’s a broad spectrum of preferences. Even so, there’s no excuse for not keeping things neat, tidy, and clean. This applies upstairs and downstairs and is no more than common courtesy.
If there’s someone you hook up with regularly, feel free to ask them about their preferences regarding your public presentation. Don’t simply assume they’ll do the full-bush or shaven-bald look – ask them, and you might be surprised.
Practice Good Oral Hygiene
Getting your teeth and mouth in order ahead of virtual sex is again just as much about personal confidence as it is about respect for your partner. They can’t smell your stinky breath, but they’ll for sure be able to see all the bits of debris stuck between your teeth from the lunch you just scarfed down.
Consider a DIY teeth-whitening kit if you want to put on the best possible show when hooking up with cam girls. Some webcams and smartphone lights are not particularly flattering and have a habit of making yellow or discolored teeth look worse than they do in real life.
Wash Your Hair
Why would you need to wash your hair properly before a live sex call? Simple – greasy hair and dandruff are not exactly what you would call a turn on for most women.
Again, you need to be thinking about how you may look on a webcam, illuminated by a lamp that doesn’t help you hide your flaws. You wouldn’t head out on a date in the real world with greasy hair or dandruff all down your shirt, so why do so online?
See a Doctor
Last but not least, if you have any telltale signs (subtle or otherwise) of a potential infection, skin condition, or anything else, do yourself (and everyone else) a favor and speak to a doctor.
One of the few things less attractive and poor hygiene is the sight of spots, rashes, hives, and anything else that could suggest an STI is at work.
Remember that the longer issues like these go overlooked, the more likely they will impact your health and well-being.
Set up your space
Before you start your live call, it’s important to take a few moments and set up your space. This means ensuring that you have everything necessary for the call such as condoms, lube and tissues within easy reach so you don’t have to fumble around when things get hot and heavy. Additionally, make sure to check the lighting in your space – having an even amount of light will ensure that your partner can easily see what you are doing during the call.
If you want to create a more intimate atmosphere, try setting up some soft lighting or a couple of candles for extra ambiance. Depending on where in the house or apartment you will be having the live call, mute any noise which may be distracting either for yourself or for your partner – this might include:
- turning off any TVs or radios
- closing windows to muffle outside sounds like traffic
- dimming down those bright overhead lights!
All of these little touches will help to create an alluring environment so both parties can enjoy themselves fully during the session.
In conclusion, preparing for a live sex call requires the same attention to detail as preparing for real-life sex. Good hygiene is essential in building confidence, and it is important to maintain high standards in order to get the most out of the experience. This includes washing, drying, and smelling great, changing your underwear, keeping your grooming in order, practicing good oral hygiene, washing your hair, and seeing a doctor if you have any signs of potential infection or skin conditions. By following these basic rules, you can ensure that you and your partner have the best possible virtual sex experience.